We have blind spots on our pupils. Our brain fills in the missing image the best way it can given what’s around the blind spot.
I’ve pride myself as being able to criticize myself. I’m self-center, often not sensitive, sloppy, workaholic, not patient.
I also realize even though I beat myself up enough, there are still huge blind spots that I choose not to see or be aware of in my daily life.
So I’ve taken steps to alleviate the blind spot by asking for feedback from friends who I trust to give me honest feedback. Also from my parents who are loving but do not holdback their criticisms when they are asked.
Not that I go around thinking I’m horrible, but there is always room for tuning.. Like any high performance machine, a little bit of ajustment here and there goes a long way.