unconditional love

(self portrait in Barcelona train station)

I once thought I no longer loved someone. I tried to prove this to myself by either trying to hate this person or trying to love someone else. Until I realized one day that I can still love and show love to this person without needing or wanting anything in return.

Giving love without reciprocation has brought peace and calmness to my otherwise frazzle mind.

Tony Tam

Senior Principal Architect @ Splunk Founder of ImpactfulEngineer.org & SFBadminton.org